What has been your most challenging part of motherhood?
Especially as your kids grow older, I would say it’s teaching them virtues in failure – allowing them to accept and own consequences for their decisions/actions, yes, but also encouraging them to rise up to their God-given potential, and you only get there by trying. “The only true failure is when you stop trying,” as my parents would say. Allowing them to fail is one part of this, but leading by example is the flip side of that coin… They’re always watching, so how do I accept life challenges as an incredible opportunity? Ultimately, we’re teaching our children to stand on their own two feet with strength and confidence in knowing God made them with special intention and purpose, so “rise up” and make the world a better place.
What inspires you as a mom?
I’m inspired by Holiness in others, and am inspired by the reality that, by a divine plan, we were chosen to be mothers for our children… What an awesome responsibility as both Nurturer and Teacher! I am blessed by great friendships and believe me, I take notes from friends with older kids… They’ve encountered life situations and instilled values where I can see their kids flourishing, and it’s super inspirational. And not just great testimonies for hard work paying off with college or career opportunities, but awesome examples in volunteerism, stewardship. If I open my eyes, there are ordinary people doing extraordinary things every day.
How do you find time for yourself/spouse/children?
I heard this years ago, and have never forgotten it: “How do you spell Love? T-I-M-E.” A professional business coach also made this sobering point, “Your family deserves what’s best of you, not what’s left of you” when you walk in the door. That awakened my senses, and inspired me to structure my business so that I am present… I love to escape with my son and do things he wants to do – just mother/son time. Admittedly, a gun range or video game challenge is not always my cup of tea, but there’s a lot of sharing! With my daughter, she likes foodie outings, and have done quick overnight trips together – very special. And hubs… We try to find simple moments like coffee on the back patio before the house wakes up, or a quiet dinner together. We even took a dance lesson in the last year. 😉 Lastly, self-care… I think many mothers would admit self-care often times comes last, and am reminded of the airplane analogy of putting an oxygen mask over our face first so we can help others around us. We’re not effective serving others unless we’re taking care of ourselves. It’s a work in progress.
What are your favorite things to do/places to spend time with your children in our community?
I would say one of our favorite things to do as a family is going out to eat together! What does that say about us?! HA! We live in a resort-like community, so we’ve enjoyed a lot of fun outings through the years… July Fourth parade is an annual tradition, picnics or concert-going in the park, being a spectator at professional golf tournaments, church socials… Window-shopping around Market Street… Volunteering as a family… So many wonderful venues and memories to create!
What advice would you give new moms?
Oh my… I’m not sure I’m qualified to give advice, but would simply say to “be present.” I look back in the early years of my current career when my kids were young, and it’s a blur. I was inspired to get into a coaching program, which allowed me to implement better systems and structure. One of the core principles I was coached on included creating a Perfect Calendar. So, that would be my advice… Make sure your top priorities are on your calendar – time for yourself and time for your family. Other activities, work commitments, etc, will fall in place around the latter.
Jo Anne grew up in Overland Park, Kansas, and attended the University of Nebraska-Lincoln on a full-ride music scholarship while simultaneously pursuing a professional career as a violinist with The Lincoln Symphony Orchestra among other solo & ensemble outlets. Upon graduating with a Bachelor of Music in Violin Performance, Jo Anne continued a professional music career while exploring a “daytime” career in Corporate America with a Fortune 500 Company. Within a short period, her tenure in insurance claims included: National Catastrophe claims, Fire/Auto claims, Special Investigation, Attorney Negotiations, and Management. Since 1996 Jo Anne has worked, lived, and played in The Woodlands. She began her real estate career in 2008 which she has grown into a top-producing team – Jo Anne Johnson Real Estate Group. Married for over 20 years to Troy, a native Houstonian, whom she met in Denver, CO, on business in the early ‘90s, Jo Anne is also the proud mother of two amazing kids! Between band practices and sports fields, she considers herself the luckiest woman in the world!